TT

每次說是我的錯,說我這樣針對的是你。然後要我遷就。
她就可以我行我素。又不是一次了。都說過了我不喜歡,她還是照做 不是故意是怎樣。
每次就是要我遷就。就跟每次我的東西被丟掉一樣。

說了很多次,她還是照丟。然後又要我遷就。
你們不覺得自己很過分嗎。 她就可以為所欲為。

發生事情了,她就會說 都做了能怎樣。

她就只知道會說 我哪裡知道,你不覺得很過分嗎。
每次都說我的錯,我脾氣不好。

也不想想是誰先做哪些讓人不開心,發脾氣的事。
我真的受夠了。

TT

愛一直閃亮

i cannot. the thought of the younger days  while walking along pasarmalam just bring tears into my eyes.

still remember how me and sis fought over a $5 note and tore it. just because we wanted to buy a tweety bird mirror comb thingey.

come to think of it, i was really wilful when i was younger, crying and whining to get what i want. the portable scooter, just because my childhood playmate has it, i want it too. how much you have slogged to bring us up. though mom always complain you only care about uncle’s family, i know you care for us too, i am sure.

now that i have grow up and started working, i understand how mentally tiring is it to work (and i am only sitting in the office). you are always out under the hot sun, or even stormy days. but what i do when i was a kid was just to spend your hard earned money on my own luxury and useless things. i really really feel bad now, but everything is too late. there is no more chance to repay all the money you have spend on me for 19 years of my life.

though i always think you loved sis more, i still want to be your daughter in my next life. will i have the chance to repay you?

gotta stop here. my tears cant stop flowing, and i am at work. nobody must see me crying.

 

愛一直閃亮

Humanity

When you ‘open’ your heart to people, you’re not sure when they will ‘betray’ you. Your half jokes were misunderstood.

I swore I’ve never spoken ill of you before. When other people tell me stories about you, I will even explain on your behalf, though deep down I pretty much agree with them. But that’s what I got in return.

Times like this just validate the point of me being an introvert. What for making small talks when all they want to hear are just gossips.

In this world today, you can never trust anyone but yourself.

Humanity

ISFP-T or INTJ

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I don’t know about you, but as an introvert, I seem to have two modes of conversation: I spew all the thoughts that have built up in my head or I say hardly anything at all. In Mode #1, I give the false impression that I’m an extrovert. In Mode #2, people wonder if I’m upset or bored. Sometimes people ask if I’m okay, to which I reply, confused, “Yeah, I’m fine.” Other times they comment on how quiet I am—but this just makes me feel even more self-conscious.

So what’s really going on when I’m quiet? Here’s what might be happening:

1. I can’t think of anything to say. I really can’t. My mind has gone blank and the silence that is stretching out awkwardly is simply serving to intensify my mind paralysis. I have so many thoughts—or do I have none at all? I can’t tell. Those thoughts take the form of images, hunches, emotions, and fragments of phrases, but sometimes they just don’t coalesce into words.

2. I’m focused on something else. How should I delicately word this email so I don’t sound like a jerk? What should I order for dinner? When I’m trying to think through something, I go silent. I turn inward and attend to my own thoughts. It’s hard for me to concentrate on more than one thing at a time, because my brain seems made to dive deep and focus intensely. Give me a few minutes to finish my mental task, and then I’ll be talking again.

3. Group conversations are too much. Everyone is talking. There are too many people here. It’s so loud. What did you say? This conversation is moving fast and there’s no time for me to think. I’m sick of small talk—I wish I could find one person to talk to in a meaningful way.

4. There’s an interesting world inside my head. As an introvert, I’m a natural observer. I observe people, relationships, nature, situations—everything. Whatever I see and hear and experience enters my mind and stays there for a while. Some people label this behavior “overthinking” (and yes, sometimes I do get stuck on negative thoughts). But to me, thinking is what I do best. But I can’t talk and reflect at the same time.

5. I don’t feel like you respect my ideas. This happens to me every once in a while. I’m sure it happens to both introverts and extroverts. But sometimes I feel like it’s not worth bringing up something I care about because I don’t think the other person will get it. Maybe I talked about something personal but the other person made me feel stupid for opening up to them. I felt worse after talking to them, not better. This means I will become quieter and quieter around that person.

6. Actually, I’m not fine. Something bad happened. I’m upset. I didn’t get the job or I got in a fight with my boyfriend. Maybe everything just seems to be going wrong today. But I don’t want to talk about The Problem right now. I need to think about it for a while. Probably later—once I’ve had time to process—I’ll talk.

7. I’m politely trying to end this conversation but the other person isn’t getting the hint. Ok, enough! Stop! I like to listen, but not this much. I get especially annoyed when people repeat themselves. Or when the conversation is just a list of complaints. I’m about to do the un-introvert thing and interrupt you!

8. I’m tired. I promise I’m not upset with you, I just didn’t sleep well last night. My mind is foggy, my body feels gross, and I’m struggling to make it through the day. I have limited “people” energy on a normal day, but today I’m running on empty.

9. I was daydreaming. Sorry! What did you say?

10. I’m peopled out. The weekend was too busy. I’ve been under siege at work, school, and home and I haven’t gotten enough alone time. I want to be alone, or with just one other trusted person like my significant other. I just don’t feel like myself. I need time to focus on my own thoughts and feelings and fill myself back up mentally and emotionally. Trust me, after a few hours (or days) to myself, I’ll be bubbling over with things to say—I’ll be back in Mode #1.

When an introvert is quiet, don’t assume he is depressed, snobbish or socially deficient. — Laurie Helgoe, Introvert Power: Why Your Inner Life Is Your Hidden Strength retina_favicon1

All The Possible Reasons I’m Not Talking Right Now

ISFP-T or INTJ

time of the month again

feeling a little blue all of a sudden. friends seem to think that i am annoying. though they did not say it out, but i know. i can feel it.

yes, it’s my fault. for spamming way to much on wa at inappropriate hours. different people have different levels of tolerance. you can’t change how people feel, but you can’t help it but to feel sadden by the thought of it.

hai. life’s a vicious cycle. some people pissed you off, and we pissed people off (unknowingly) at times too. you put lemon in your tea to make it sour, then sugar to make it sweet.

i know i have to prepare a bloodsucker soon.

time of the month again

Geminis

These are like damn trueee!

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5點說明雙子的最真性格!

  1. 雙子很神經質,精神脆弱,容易人格分裂,因為承受了太多的東西
  2. 一般來說雙子的孩子都很早熟
  3. 雙子對很多的東西都在乎得要命,可是表面上就是看起來什麼都不在乎
  4. 雙子並不是故意要掩飾自己,這只是一種習慣了,可是在外人看來他就成了虛偽的人。其實真的是一種誤會!
  5. 雙子表面花心,卻實際是個愛情的執著透視雙子座容易因為什麼而錯過愛情?從今天起,別再錯過真愛了!

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雙子座:善變,容易神經質善變的雙子座在戀愛方面,是很容易錯過愛情運的。說實話,雙子座從來不缺戀愛和約會對象,他們比較有桃花運。

但是他們有時候比較善變,因為他們會因為一個細節而對一個人突然產生好感,產生欣賞和愛慕,然後一直喜歡著對方,但也可能突然就會因為對方的一個動作,一個行為,一件事就突然不喜歡了。

本來就神經質的雙子座在陷入愛情的時候,這種情況變得更加嚴重,會莫名其妙的腦補很多事情,也許明明對方什麼也沒有做,但他們就認定了一些事絕對沒有發生,然後吵架,感情吵沒了,新鮮感也沒了,於是也就到了分道揚鑣的時候了。

雖然事後察覺原來自己多慮了,但再也回不去了。所以,雙子座在面對感情的時候,還是應該要成熟理智一點,很多問題也要多為對方考慮一下,不要只站在自己的角度想問題。

 

 

 

Geminis